Monday, February 4, 2008

An Unexpected Meeting……….. A Day Early





Sunday, February 03, 2008

Our last day in Kiev was replete and fun-filled. With Len’s great navigation skills we found our way to the Opera House, St. Sophia’s and St. Michaels. We made our way back to souvenir alley and purchased a small oil painting from the wife of a Ukrainian artist. Had lunch (our first authentic meal – it was delicious! And ended our day at our familiar market for bread and water and a little something sweet.

The arrival at Simferpol was uneventful (thankfully). Pam is doing great flying without her “little white pill” trying to be alert and preparing to set a good example for “you know who”. It’s not really that bad, her mind is on other things… the fear of flying seems to have dissipated for now. The 1-½ hour drive through the rural countryside of Ukraine saddened and provided perspective, as the impoverished conditions were everywhere. It’s amazing what the human spirit can endure…

On our way into Sevastopol, Pam asked Viktor if a drive by the orphanage would be OK and not out of the way… Figuring “seeing” the building would help make tomorrow’s visit less stressful. As we pulled up, another family, Wendy and Chad, from Tennessee, were preparing to leave with their soon to be adopted children, Katya (14) and her brother Andrei (17) to the zoo…… It was nice to finally meet Wendy, as she and Pam became fast friends via email when Gail introduced that we would be traveling at the same time. We visited for 15 minutes or so and then Katya disappeared inside. Next Viktor followed.

He returned saying that they had called the Orphanage Director, Lubov, to ask for permission for us to see Angela. Right here, right now!!! We were shocked and filled with intense excitement. Lubov said she would make this exception but only for 10 minutes and only outside. It was sunny and 45….. an outdoor meeting would obviously have been our preference anyway!

Next thing we knew, appearing through the trees, was our little Angela!

Carrying the birthday card we had made for her, wearing a pink parka that fell below her knees, blue jeans with embellishments & jewels at the cuffs and blue and pink tattered sneakers…… She was absolutely adorable! Pam and Angela slowly made their way to one another and with a simple embrace the connection was made. It seemed as if time had stopped and no one was there but the two of us….. A second later, the three of us were embracing as Len, of course, had been by her side the entire time.

A gentle spirit, tiny, precious, and noticeably sweet, we knew instantly everything was going to be all right. It was amazingly casual and strangely comfortable. She bounced between Pam and Len and Mama Nikolya, her primary caretaker, offering and receiving hugs of reassurance. Our time with her felt natural, peaceful and calm.

We respected our ten-minute allowance and said our goodbyes….. For tomorrow was will visit and play!

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

OK, that made me cry. I am so happy for you, it's just a beautiful story so far, praying for no worries and a happy ending for all! Barb McManus

Anonymous said...

Wonderful news. I can't wait to see pictures. Wow! Amazing. I am so happy for her and for you guys.
Keep the updates coming. Love hearing about it all.

Blessing,
Gail

Anonymous said...

Well, that was the smiling face of fortune! congratulations to you and I'm thinking your trip may not last as long as you originally planned! jo ann

Anonymous said...

What joy to read of your meeting with Angela. I love how it all unfolded with such ease and grace-fulness! Diffusing extra drama or anxiety. I love it! Thank you for taking the time to capture the feelings you had. The way you described the setting, I felt as though I was standing nearby watching the magic of the moment unfold between you. So lovely. So dear that Angela was holding the birthday card that you sent her. What a sweet precious gesture.

I'm going to picture you loving on each other every day and am just so incredibly happy that you all feel the joy of being with one another. Such a miracle. Thanks for sharing the love--right back attcha! xoxo Michele (if you do, email me at laumers@fuse.net--I don't check gmail account much).

Anonymous said...

A memory to last a lifetime! Pam and Len, it doesn't take long for your warmth and wonderful spirit to shine through. I am sure Angela felt it right away. Love to you both.
Molly

Anonymous said...

Wow!!! I have been curious how things have been going for a while now, and getting your text the other day made me even more curious! I finally got around to checking the blog today! The story warmed my heart, I have to get to bed but I cannot wait to read more later and am even more excited to meet Angela! She sounds amazing, a perfect addition to the family. This is so exciting!!! Colleen McCanna

Anonymous said...

Pam and Len---We love reading about your journey! So fascinating! I cried when I read about your first meeting--so touching! You all are going to be the best parents any child could wish for! Take care---we're thinking of you everyday---Charlie and Kelley (Charlie wanted to make sure you knew it was me that cried--not him!)

Anonymous said...

How exciting!! I'm so happy that things are going smoothly. And that you are already able to meet her and spend time with her. Enjoy every minute!! Mindy

ian said...

so i just a wrote a nice little note and then the internet destroyer destroyed it. well im back in the office trying to stay focused on regional policy, but happen to be wondering off into a land of palm trees and other neat tropical features.
so you made contact with angela and as you stated it was natural - well that seems to make perfect sense as you know how comfortable i feel when im around you two. i think angela will be so lucky to have you both as parents - i was and still am.
so gotta get back to this dreary rainy wodnerful day out here in beautiful NH.
Love,
me

Doctor Who said...

Got your texts and responded with same, but I don't know if you guys got them (per the e-mail).

Anyway, it's great to read-up on the progress over there. I look forward to seeing all three of you in a month or so.

Love,

Zach

Unknown said...

hey guys, everything sounds amazing. i am glad the trip has allowed some free time to reflect and sight see around the country. It is so wonderful that angela got to come out and visit withyou. I am so happy for you.

Anonymous said...

Ahhhh! My favorite care taker. Please give her a hug from us..

Love the picture. You guys make a beautiful family. I am so happy for you all.

You have changed a childs life forever. May God bless you for being obedient.
Gail
http://gmnealey.blogspot.com