Thursday, February 7, 2008

Day 10....... Slow and Easy




Today felt like a day off! We relaxed at the apartment……… no appointments, papers to sign, errands to run (we made our daily stop at the market for water and bread yesterday). Galya and Kostia were here promptly at 3:30 for our daily ride to the orphanage. We gave them a few little gifts that we brought for them and for their adorable 2 ½ year old, Maya. Galya, among many other entrepreneurial skills, is a volunteer for Life To Orphans (http://www.lifetoorphans.org/) and is an amazing advocate for this orphans here in Sevastopol and the surrounding area.

Our visit with Angela today was relaxed and fun. We talked again about the upcoming court appearance (we don’t have a date yet but hope to have it next week) and the fact that we need to finalize the selection of her middle name. Angela _______ Thomas! We’re hoping to have “Sin” (her Korean last name) be her new middle name. We told her about the research we had done and that the name Sin, also spelled and pronounced “Shin”, which we prefer, has strong historical ties to Korean history…… Many other Shins, have been poets, artists, Buddhist monks, historians, and most importantly the General who founded a large province in South Korea, a name she can be very proud of. She nodded, and then asked if we had already signed the paperwork….. We laughed and told her of course not. A name is a very important thing and a decision we want her to be a part of. We decided to let her think about it and discuss it again another day. We took a map with us today to show her where Korea was…… She wasn’t familiar and doesn’t seem to consider herself Asian at all…. We find this curious but understandable.

The rest of our time was spent with all of the girls playing Uno, doing cartwheels, snacking on cookies we had brought from the market and then reading a little at the end.

A quick meeting with Lubov, requesting permission to take Angela out both Saturday and Sunday. She said OK!!! We then asked for a list of items that might be needed such as toiletries etc….. We’d like to start bringing a little something with us each day that we know all the girls will benefit from.

Back at the apartment, Pam created a unique Ukrainian-Mex concoction….. Len, being easy to please and a “good eater” threw out one compliment after another….. We ended our dinner with talks of how the meal would have been perfect with our favorite TJ’s Lime Salsa and Flaxseed Chips and a little dollop of Len’s homemade guacamole. Ole! Len cleared the table and went to the freezer, pretending to grab a pint of Graeter’s vanilla ice cream.

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

Seeing the photos of the three of you guys looks so natural...like she's already "home". Sounds like things are progressing nicely...I am surprised Len has not introduced the game of golf to Angela yet!

All the best...

Doctor Who said...

Pam and Len-
She is so beautiful. We can't wait to see you all back at home. This blog is such a great idea - I love staying updated on everything.
Until we see you, much love...

Allison Grant said...

oops, that last comment was from me. I am on Zach's computer and I didn't realize I was signed in as him.

adoptedthree said...

Incredibly beautiful!!! Have a wonderful time together

Anonymous said...

Kirk and I just can't get over how big the smiles are and the "i can't believe this" looks in the faces! The entries have become part of our daily routine...Kirk and JO

Leah Cohen said...

Len and Pam,
The news from you end is so great. Meeting with Angela brought tears to our eyes. What a wonderful happening. We are keeping abreast of all that's going on there thru Leah. Seeing the photos of the two of you and Angela was an emotional experience for us. Our new granddaughter looks adorable.
Love,
Mom and Marv

Anonymous said...

Hi Pam, Your daughter is just stunning! Thank you for giving me your blog address. I have really enjoyed reliving our adoption adventures through your blog. How well I remember the Sevastopol inspectors meeting! It also brought back memories of how everything SOUNDED so serious in Russian. Once, I quietly asked our translator what was the problem, and she laughed and said there was no problem, they were discussing something totally trivial.
About your daughter interest in her heritage, our daughter also has no interest in her heritage at this point, but I think it will come in time. We continue to show her photos of her homeland. One day I think she will be proud of them.
Have a great time. Y'all look so great and natural together!
Kathy Barber

Anonymous said...

Pam, I'm having a problem trying to get a hold of you.. could you call my land line? Galya

leanne said...

hi Len and Pam....
I have been mesmerized with your incredible adventure of love and perseverance. You are opening your lives up to worlds of amazement with this special girl. Our boys are going to have so much fun sharing their "brotherly" love with their sister.....is it going to be tennis or golf?
Love to you and Angela.....Leanne

Unknown said...

Hey guys, This is so nice to be updated as you go along with this experience. The pictures are so nice. She is certainly energetic and pretty. Looks like she has some of the Voho legs. How tall is she? Mom is keeping abreast of all the news via me and Teri. She is very excited for you. Take care. Sheri

Unknown said...

Hey guys, This is so nice to be updated as you go along with this experience. The pictures are so nice. She is certainly energetic and pretty. Looks like she has some of the Voho legs. How tall is she? Mom is keeping abreast of all the news via me and Teri. She is very excited for you. Take care. Sheri